Women are extremely socially perceptive. From time to time, a woman will use manipulation tactics in order to collect information about who you as a man. All women test men, whether they’re aware of it or not. And more often than not, the male quality being tested is your ability to cope with her behavior. If you can’t handle a woman’s tests, how can she trust you to cope with the relationship when the shit really hits the fan?
To get a reaction out of you, a woman might put on a cold exterior, she might act moody, or she might act like a spoiled little brat. The important thing is to NOT react emotionally and get pulled into her test.
Don’t take things that women say at face value. Look past the content and distractions. Always ask yourself, “What’s really going on here?”
For example, let’s say you walk approach a girl in a bar and within seconds she says “I have a boyfriend.” For most guys, this would be enough for them to give up and move on to another target.
Only a small percentage of men will not be fazed by the “I have a boyfriend” comment. Whether or not she’s telling the truth doesn’t matter. What’s important is how you deal with the situation.
Of course, there are times when she will have a boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to go home with you. She may very well be interested in a one night stand because her nice guy boyfriend is lousy in bed. Or maybe she’s only keeping her boyfriend around because he’s her walking ATM machine.
The next time a woman tells you she has a boyfriend, say something like: “That’s great! I hate it when I’m talking to a woman who doesn’t tell me right away that she’s in a relationship.”
I might even give her a high five here if the energy feels right.
This conveys that you’ve got balls, giving you a bad boy edge.
Another example, let’s say you’re in the club and a hot babe asks you “Can you buy me a drink?”
Again, this is a simple test that most men fail. Whether or not you buy her the drink doesn’t matter. What’s important is that you deal with the situation while maintaining your personal power:
“Sure, I’ll buy you a drink… and you’ll buy me the next one, right?”
In other words, YOU test the woman.
Women are tired of being able to walk over men. Women use tests to make their life easier. It’s not so much about being dishonest as it is necessary. It’s her way of filtering out the predictable and boring nice guys.
A woman simply needs to know that she’s dealing with a real man, and not a boy. Once you’ve commanded respect by passing her little tests, she will let her guard down, revealing the warmer side of her personality.