Let’s say you’re out talking with a woman you just met. The conversation goes well, and everything seems to be going your way. Then, when you ask for her name, she tells you — but she doesn’t ask for yours. Does this mean she’s not interested in you?
Scenarios like this can freak some men out, but it really shouldn’t. It could simply mean she forgot to ask, or she’ll be asking for your number later on anyway, or — worst case — she’s not really interested in you. But even the worst case scenario isn’t so bad when you realize one thing.
When you’re out with a new girl, her approval or interest in you should be the last thing on your mind. This is because when you secretly want her to like you, she’s going to sense it — and it’s going to make her suspicious. Believe me when I say that women can smell desperation and approval-seeking from a mile away.
So keep this in mind — when it comes to meeting women, you don’t need to get her approval. In fact, whether or not she likes you shouldn’t even be an issue.
This kind of mentality will show that you’re a confident guy who doesn’t really care what anyone thinks. This image is VERY sexy to women — even sexier than looks and money — and if you have it, they’ll definitely want to know more about you.
Getting this kind of confidence isn’t easy, and often needs a lot of practice. But you can start by not getting intimidated by any woman, especially attractive ones. When you can feel at ease around these women and not really care either way what they think of you, it means you’re head-and-shoulders above the competition already.
If you need help getting this kind of confidence, then it might help if you go into the dating scene with a few of your friends. These “wingmen” will help you learn the right kinds of body language and words that exude confidence, and can help you develop your own inner game.
Of course, make sure the friends you go out with are actually good with women to begin with. If you go into the dating scene with a bunch of wussies who don’t know the first thing about women and dating, they just might ruin things for you.
If you don’t have any friends who know their way around the dating game, then by all means, FIND SOME. It doesn’t matter how, just find some. You’ll only learn to be confident with women from men who don’t only talk the talk, but also walk the walk.