You know that there are some women who just seem to be successful with men. They're the ones who have little to no difficulty in attracting attention from the men that they WANT attention from. And usually, they have no difficulty in KEEPING those men attracted to them, too.
Well in this article, I'm going to divulge the most important thing that those women do. It is the quality they possess that all guys LOVE
Something you may not noticed about these women that they're not necessarily the most beautiful, brilliant, or best-dressed, either.
And you know what that proves? Something you've probably told many, many times before (but have not really believed): that THE EXTERNALS ARE NOT THE IMPORTANT THINGS.
It's not LOOKS that count.
It's not a great job, either.
It's not a huge social circle or glittering social life.
And it's not a beautiful house or perfect holiday home.
It does not matter how rich you are or what kind of car you drive.
None of these things make a hell of a lot of difference to men – I mean, if they're dating someone who just happens to have one or more of these things, then great. What a fun bonus!
But none of them are the DECIDING FACTOR.
I'll tell you what the deciding factor is. The knowledge that YOU are enough in yourself to attract any man you want, it's called SELF-CONFIDENCE, and men LOVE it.
Here's a basic truth for you: you attract to yourself what YOU think you deserve. If you're a confident woman who KNOWS that she describes the best, then the best is exactly what you'll attract to yourself.
Because self-confidence is not something you can hide from ANYONE. People can tell what sort of a value you place on yourself. And it's this value – your own worth, AS YOU SEE IT – that "teachers" other people how well they should treat you.
So, if you know you deserve the best – really, really KNOW it – then the best is what you'll get. On the other hand, If you expect to be treated poorly, then YOU WILL BE.
You can not hide what you think about yourself – it always shines through. And that self-belief is what decides how OTHER PEOPLE treat you, too
Let me give you a hint. A confident woman knows she does not need to try to impress anyone. She knows she's "good enough" just the way she is. So she never jumps through hoops, plays along with head-games, or tries to win ANYBODY'S approval.
And this is a powerful attractive way to act! Women who are SELECTIVE – who have their own standards, who think about whether men are good enough for THEM – are in demand. They're intriguing, mysterious and ATTRACTIVE.
Now, I'm not trying to tell you to act like a snooty little princess, or to be super-picky and require men to bend over back for you because that's hard mature behavior, is it?
What I'm trying to say is that men find you MUCH more attractive when you place a high value on yourself, and ACT ACCORDING TO THOSE STANDARDS.
For example, if a woman with high self-confidence and a high self-worth suspected that the man she was seeing was seeing other women, too – and if that was not something she was happy with – then she would not beat around the bush, or get upset.
She'd say, very calmly, something like, "It seems to me that you might have a different idea of the parameters of this relationship than what I do.If we're going to be intimate, then I expect exclusivity – otherwise, I'm not interested in pursuing this further. "
No threats. No crying. No raised voices or immaturity.
Just a simple statement of fact: if you're not prepared to give me what I expect as a minimum standard of behavior, then I'm not interested in you.
Respecting yourself, knowing what you want, and communicating that to the men in your life: THOSE are the secret weapons of attractive, "man-successful" women.
Do not worry if you do not know automatically how to have in this powerfully attractive way. It's not something that you have to be born with. You can LEARN how to be unshakably confident, and learn how to apply it to your dates and relationships in a way that 'll have you reaping instant rewards. Just learn it. Good Luck!