When a single Ukrainian woman places a profile at one of the dating sites, she will probably just describe her best features. She will also mention what her ideal man should be like, but there are still facts that she prefers to keep secret. It is only in the letters that she will write to you that will give you more personal information, but still it might include all the facts. What don’t single Ukrainian women want to tell you?
The single Ukrainian woman may want to keep her education a secret. In Ukraine most women have had a great education but sometimes a higher education simply isn’t enough and they have to continue on with their studies. Unfortunately in Ukraine a girl’s intelligence is not highly rated, and Single Ukrainian women prefer to keep it a secret because they are afraid that their intellect will scare away potential husbands.
There is still the notion that all single woman in the Ukraine are foolish blondes, and that alone will dictate their behavior. Often they try to conceal their Master’s degree or higher education when they really don’t need to. Men today appreciate an intelligent single Ukraine woman, and if you are one of these men then you should tell her often that you love the fact that she is smart.
Single Ukrainian women also try to keep the fact that they may have children a secret. Most of the women that are between the ages of 30 and 35 on the dating websites are divorced with children. For Ukrainian men it is a big problem as they feel that children mean more responsibility, money, and time. For men from other countries they might not find this to be such a challenge, but yet single Ukrainian women with children are finding it hard to overcome what they feel is the case with all men.
Tell her you love children and would have no problem if she had 2 or 3. It would be good to add that you would be willing to adopt them if you ever did get married. Make her feel that she shouldn’t have to be ashamed that she has children so that way she can open up to you more about them.
Hobbies are another facet of the single Ukrainian woman’s life that she may find that she has to hide from you. Very often Ukrainian women write in their personal ads that they like sports such as skiing and windsurfing, when more often then not they would rather stay home and sew or cook. The reason that single Ukrainian women do this is because they are trying to keep up with the Hollywood women.
They see them in the films as girls who enjoy sports and they do their best to make it seem as they do also because they feel that this is the real image that women should portray. The best way to find out if she really enjoys these kinds of sports is to ask her what she thinks of the two of you going camping. It is also helpful to ask if she has any photographs of her doing these things. If she shows you a picture of her mountain climbing then you know she is being honest, but if she can’t then it is best to accept the fact that she may be hiding the fact that she would rather be in her home instead of surfing.
Another fact that single Ukrainian women sometimes hide is regarding their parents. Single Ukrainian women in their 30s are very sentimental about their parents for the most part, but they may often be embarrassed about the fact that they could be alcoholics or possibly in prison. Not that this is always the case, because it certainly isn’t, but often single Ukrainian women feel that you should love the girl and not necessarily care about the parents.
Open up to her about your parents, and hopefully she will do the same. If she hides facts or doesn’t answer your questions regarding her parents then she may simply be ashamed of them. When she does open up to you about her parents then it means that you are getting closer and that she trusts you immensely.
If you ask her these questions with respect and tact then you will find the ideal Ukrainian lady and uncover any secrets she may not feel comfortable disclosing to you. When she does though, it means that you can probably look forward to a long life together.