When it comes to pleasing a woman orally, often the biggest factor that will prevent a woman from reaching orgasm is not how much her partner knows. It’s her.
However, there are things you can do to combat this self-sabotage and ensure that you have the best possible chance of pleasing your woman orally, and that’s what we’re going to cover in the rest of this article.
Tell Her What She Wants to Hear
Many women feel incredibly uncomfortable allowing a man to put his head near her vagina. They worry about the smell, the taste, how they look from that angle, whether or not they’re going to drown you or choke you to death… all kinds of weird stuff.
One of the best things you can do is to reassure her and let you know that you enjoy doing it. Tell her it’s a real turn on for you, and that you love the taste, smell, and most importantly, you love watching her have those powerful orgasms as a result of having your mouth and tongue inside her vagina.
Scrub Up Before You Go Down
Having a bath or shower together not only is a lovely way to spend an evening together, it is also one of the most foolproof ways to create sexual tension, arouse her like crazy, and make sure that she feels clean and therefore isn’t too self-conscious about her downstairs regions.
Quite frankly, it rocks.
Try making out in the shower, then once she’s in the mood, stand behind her and have her directly in front of the shower. Tell her to lean back so that the water jets go almost directly onto her vagina. If you have one of those shower heads on a movable coil, you’re golden. However, even if you don’t, this is still a fantastic technique. Use your hand to play with her vagina while the water is running against it. This will ensure you not only get a really deep clean in there, but also will really excite her. And the more excited she is, the less inhibited she will be about having your face between her legs.
Try and Get a Clean Workspace
When it comes to cunilingus, the less hair she has down there, the better. Not only does hair make it difficult for you to see what’s going on, it also dulls the pleasure she will feel. In addition the hair around her vagina will trap any unpleasant odors and increase the risk of infection. And last but not least, let’s face it – no one wants to be flossing their teeth when they’re trying to please their woman orally.
Whether she waxes, shaves, or even just trims it short, try and encourage her to get rid of as much of it as possible. After all, the less hair she has, the better it will feel for her, and the better her orgasms will be.