When you think of “dating” a woman, you probably think of “dinner and a movie,” am I right? Going out and doing stuff with the girl. Getting to know her, and all that jazz. Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?
Although many men may consider dating a woman means they have some type of hidden romantic purpose, this is not always true.
Here is a small list of some of the more common mistakes a man can make while dating a woman.
Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to “Impress” women.
Many men feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.
Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.
Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don’t care how much you’re spending on a date.
Mistake #3: Activities are meaningless!
Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.
Mistake #4: Sabotaging yourself with boredom!
Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.
Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.
Some men think dates should go a certain way, they have their own ideas of how things are suppose to turn out, they then follow the same strict pattern of failure. They always go to the same places, while asking their dates the same questions they have asked all the other women they have dated. There is no fun or natural impulses offered into their interactions.
What does dating a woman mean?
The answer is simple; dating is a means of encouraging and building comfort, attraction and emotional connections.
See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.
This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.
Your entire focus while dating a girl should be “how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?”
Consider talking about your passions and shared interests, this will aid you in determining what hopes and dreams she holds dear.
Take care to keep away from boring questions that involve work rather you might consider rephrasing your questions while adding interesting fun while on a date. As an example, you may ask her, If you were not held back by the laws of time and space and could do anything, what would you do.
Most importantly: HAVE FUN!
Tell a few jokes, even if they are not the best, simply have fun, while steering the conversation towards her topics of interest, you should be curious of whom she really is.
But most importantly, don’t shy away from sex!
Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.
Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.