For some men, planning a date is as easy as changing socks. They have taken care of all the details especially the logistics. However, despite the preparedness most of them still find it hard to come up with a list of topics that they can talk about later. Typically, the conversation ruins the whole date. If you are the kind of person who does not know how to converse with a woman, then rest assured that your date is completely ruined. On the other hand, if you are the kind of person who can carry a conversation and keep her interested then do not be surprised you find yourself in another date with her.
The problem is most men are focused at the topics. They tend to forget on the how part. How you converse with her has the same impact with the things you talk about. Therefore, what are the aspects that combine the "how" part of the conversation.
The following are the components of the "how" part:
- Body language, they all say that 90% of the message that you are trying to convey is sent through body language. Therefore, if you want her to feel something like excitation, use the proper kind or form of body language.
- Eye contact, no conversation is every complete if you do not hold eye contact. This is one of the best ways to show her that you really mean what you are saying. Moreover, eye contact can also mean interest or attraction.
Then after how, comes the "what" part. The "what" part is usually about the topics women want to talk about. Here are some examples:
- Talk about drama. Women are emotional animals, this is probably why they prefer dramatic movies or TV shows.
- Love stories and romance. They say women are hopeless romantic. This is probably because they grow up reading fairy tales and romance novels. If you want to keep the conversation going you might want to prepare one or two romantic stories of your own.
To make your date successful, you will have to make the conversation part successful as well. For a more detailed discussion on the how and what of conversing with women, refer to my website.