For as long as there are women on this earth, there will be pick-up lines. Awful pick-up lines which not only don’t work on women, but insult them. All types of men read about these pick-up lines and assume that with their new found wisdom they will be irresistible to the opposite sex, but in actuality, these lines don’t do anything but repel the women which these men are trying to attract.
A guide to picking up women.
One reason pick-up lines don’t work is because they are not natural.
A woman’s first impressions is the most important aspect of approaching women. If you don’t make it count, then nothing’s going to happen for you. Pick-up lines are see through, and as much as websites and other resources tell you that these sort of approaches work, the fact of the matter is that they don’t. Any woman you approach with these sorts of lines will instantaneously know what your intention is, and because it won’t seem natural, she won’t be open to your approach. You are far more likely to be rejected if you use these lines, and to be perfectly honest, I don’t think I have ever heard of pick-up lines working for anyone.
Make your approach seem casual and unplanned.
Because of these self-proclaimed experts which claim to know ‘every secret to all woman’, men over-complicate what is actually required to approach a woman, think about it so much that they scare themselves, and then decide not to approach the woman at all.
All you have to do is start a conversation with a woman. That’s it. You don’t have to Google pick-up lines and search until you find one you have never heard before. You don’t have to lie and invent a persona to get a woman’s number. All you have to do is initiate a conversation. This way, there’s no way your approach will seem see through, because all you are doing is talking to her.
It only takes one sentence to start a conversation.
The only other thing to remember when approaching a woman is to listen to her. When she says something, listen to what she says, and respond appropriately. By doing this, the conversation will flow naturally and will never grow stale. By paying attention, you pave the way for more topics to talk about, and ultimately, the chance to further interact with said woman.
That’s it. A guide to picking up women. I know that it will sound simple at first, but that is the easiest way to approach a woman. A natural, spontaneous conversation. From there you can ask her for her number and take it from there. It really is entirely up to you.